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05/15
2006 Mon
OB CLASS的EQ TEST vol. 3
EQ TEST

Test your emotional intelligence (EQ)
You scored 40% correct!

Your score indicates that you have a below average EQ.
People that typically score in this range sometimes have trouble recognising and understanding their feelings. They are not always able to express their feelings in the most appropriate manner. They often have doubts and concerns about who they really are. They do not have much confidence in themselves and in their abilities. In most circumstances, they have a difficult time showing love, empathy and compassion for other people. In general, they are not comfortable with intimacy.

They also have trouble communicating with other people. They struggle with getting in tune with themselves and those around them. They may sometimes say the wrong thing at the wrong moment. They sometimes find it hard to show their anger or deal with anger directed at them. At times they are unable to stand up for themselves when hurt or they are handle confrontation inappropriately. They may have trouble admitting when they are wrong; and when they do make mistakes, they are often uncomfortable apologising to those they hurt.

People with below average EQ may also have low levels of self-worth. They do not like challenges or commitment and are afraid of change. They have a difficult time staying motivated and focused when they have set unattainable goals for themselves. They are fairly pessimistic about themselves and their future.

However, one great thing about emotional intelligence is that it's fluid! A person can increase their EQ at any point of their life! People with below average EQ can start by learning how to identify their emotions and take responsibility for them. There are many resources to help. People with low EQ can read books about EQ and social skills, find out about anger management courses and communication skills courses, join a support group or see a counsellor. They can keep a diary of their emotions, and ask their friends to help them recognise the things about themselves that need correcting. If these things are done there is no doubt that they can increase their emotional intelligence and live a healthy, happy life.
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05/11
2006 Thu
OB CLASS的MBTI性格測驗vol. 2
雖然這堂課我壓根兒沒到
隔週上課時還聽的霧煞煞
看了蕭B的Blog才知道是怎麼一回事
那麼後知後覺的補救還來得及嗎??

ENTP創新分析的改變計劃者
長處
1. 喜歡與人做事交往
2. 會盡使用可能性
3. 用分析能力解決複雜問題
4. 有多方面興趣
5. 開放、嘗試用新方法
6. 喜歡鬥智
7. 喜歡發明和設計
8. 不喜歡規律的工作
9. 有幽默感
10. 生活好像勇敢的冒險家
11. 機敏,而且不是附和者

可改善的地方
1. 要務實及系統的掌握計劃和事物的細節直至完成
2. 操練自律,按章行事,故意做平日怕做的刻板事情
3. 預先詳細計劃,不要隨做隨改
4. 對需要的人,多加同情、仁慈和真誠的關懷
5. 學習聆聽別人意見
6. 竭力明白保守的人和觀點
7. 多關懷社區服務和福社

雖然感覺是課堂的東西挺無聊的
沒想到結果還頗準的...
MBTI性格測驗
04/14
2006 Fri
組織行為小作業vol.1 all about Rhea
學期一開始的選修課Organizational Behavior
有了個符合時下流行趨勢的小作業
請大家在Blog上分享對週遭朋友的想法

Kay言兌完
小鬆口氣覺得好輕鬆 但突然又擔心......
假如我寫的太誠實 太多太超過
這就彷彿是個宣言 在如此公開的場合數落一個人的不是
OB學分拿到了 友情學分卻被死當
那又怎麼辦才好.....

那vol. 1就來說自己!!

刮別人的鬍子之前,先把自己的鬍子刮乾淨


Rhea
耐操 好凍 阿信的乾女兒
有自己的一套想法 也很努力朝想法走
人生的規劃已經想的很後面了
看的出不同於同年齡的同學 思想也較為成熟
雖是七年級的草莓 但也可稱是美國硬草莓

但個性也同樣拗
似乎自己已打定主意 對旁人的建議只是聽聽
接下來還是做自己想做的
就好像往前衝的火車 要攔下他必定花一番功夫

肯學習 對新的事物充滿了好奇心
喜歡接受生活中不同的挑戰
但是一個學生
要上課還要一手包辦吃住學費一切開銷
剩餘的那麼一丁點時間裡
想要學這個 想要嘗試那個
太過於的貪心顯得性子急而靜不下心

大忙人
雖在工作上獲得不少經驗
但卻在同學與家人的感情建立上出了大問題
所有的時間在賺錢 在省錢
在想辦法
但這兩樣東西卻最需要時間去培養

Rhea心裡都很清楚
但還是做不到
心裡有些疙瘩是怎麼也化不開了
家一直是他的一切
那是個可以放鬆的好所在
好像這一切的重擔可以卸下 砰一聲跳進泳池那樣舒爽
可是現在卻要安慰自己小小套房是真正的家
至少老貓mimi可以在他寂寞時陪著他

越是了解
越是逃避
與喜歡新事物隨時準備挑戰的Rhea相比
是如此過於矛盾


這是他最深層最秘密的傷口 永遠都好不了
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